Sunday, December 02, 2007

To bring meaning to my previous post, I need to share a story with you about a family that I met many years ago when I was a full time Social Worker at a local hospital. To do this I must start with yesterday. I was on-call and got a call from the hospital that a patient had just come in who needed to be sent to a psych hospital. The young boy was 14 and was experiencing some serious sadness and was incredibly overwhelmed with school.

When I met with him and his family, his mother looked very familiar, but I did not say anything because in my field you meet so many people with so many stories and its so easy to mix them up. His mother, a very sweet and tearful woman, shared their story with me and told me that I was the Social Worker who helped them 7 years ago when her son, then about 6 was diagnosed with a brain tumor which was cancerous. Being that it was a grade one, the prognosis was good. Five months later he would return for another surgery to remove another tumor, this time a grade 4. Since that time in 2001, he has been in remission. Yet, according to him and his family this life changing event would change everything forever and though he is healthy, he is suffering in another way. His mother also pointed out to me that she could n
ever forget my kindness and she felt it was no coincidence that I was on call this night. I spent much time with this family last night, even giving them my number so they can call me any time. I don't typically do this, and its not really acceptable with my bosses but the fact is that this is just another human being reaching out for another one. It is not just about me doing my job, its about being a human being.

As we get closer to the holidays and I hear these stories, and I can assure you that there are so many that I hear, I realize what is important and valuable. This young man who has experienced such tribulations, pain, fear, and anxiety is far braver and more giving than most people I know, including myself. It brings me to think of our fellow blogger Matty, who gives so much to her family as well as others and who's you
ng grandson is another brave soul.

Just a few minutes ago a friend told me that someone who lost his young wife at 39 about 3 years ago, leaving four young children has been diagnosed with cancer in two different areas. I ask myself how can this happen to one family. These poor children.

I ask you all to take this year to simplify, reflect, give thanks and to pray for all those who are in need of our prayers. The power of prayer is powerful and can move mountains if you just believe. You don't have to go to church to have conversations with God. A favorite time is on my way to work in the car when I am given a new day to see, breathe, smell, touch, and be surrounded by those I love. How lucky am I, that I got to see this family again, and to enrich my own life by sharing theirs.


Dust-bunny said...

I think it's divine intervention that you were there to help that same boy and his are a blessing to others, and not easy to forget.

I'm thankful for you, always.

And thanks for the Cascade...believe it or not, it's not that often that someone helps me out like that.

Big Dave T said...

Yes, you are lucky, but I think the families you help are more so.

Looking at your last blog about the meaning of Christmas so reminded me of a poem that I put on my blog last year (at dust bunny's request, iirc).

Anyway, if you get a chance, check it out. It's in my December 06 blogs.

It's the second blog down. A quick read and I think you'll find it's in the same sentiment you expressed.

simply me said...

Lisa, silly, i wuv u....

simply me said...

Thanks Dave - I went for the visit and read your 06 blog and you are right - its all in the memories.

I just want to know that when Jon has a family of his own, that he will remember what I tried to instill in him.
For most of Jon's Birthdays, instead of a card I write him a love letter. I do this at Christmas as well. I don't know if he reads them entirely because to a 15 year old they may seem lame, but I know he keeps them and maybe one day he'll look back at them as some of his best gifts.
Wishing you a wonderful Holiday.

Betty said...

I love stories like this. What were the odds that you'd be on-call when that family needed help again? I can just imagine the sense of purpose you must be feeling right now. The blessing goes both ways.


Rock dweller said...

hi, Love your blog. I have not been a very good blogger lately but I am forever thankful for people like you. I was a case manager once, and I got sucked right into the lived of the people I was helping. I hope your holidays are merry and safe.